See and feel

In the midst of more of this, all I can say is that I think it's more important than ever to change our society and our educational system so that we are really *seeing* each other.  We can do better for each other, but perhaps we have to first look at our own hurts and to have someone validating those hurts (*seeing* us).  We can deescalate sometimes, we can "see," we can really get to know rather than demand, etc.  We are an angry society, but we don't have to be.